Writing Excuses - 14

     

Homework: Take three stories (books, films, whatever) you love, and explore the emotional impact those stories have on you. Strip away the “bookshelf” genre, and try to identify for yourself the core elements that make those stories work.


1. Fleabag

What makes this show so powerful is its radical honesty. The moments Fleabag looks directly at the audience, breaking that invisible barrier, create a striking intimacy you can’t ignore. It isn’t just her telling her story; it’s her holding up a mirror. Her grief, guilt, and shame bleed into our own. You don’t just watch her fall apart; you feel the same fractures in yourself.

Humans are messy, and Fleabag never shies away from that truth. Complicated family ties, disastrous entanglements, the tug-of-war between yearning for love and sabotaging it; these are struggles we all recognize, even if the details shift. Her contradictions make her unforgettable: selfish yet tender, reckless yet vulnerable. In her, I see the truth that none of us are wholly good or wholly bad. We are a tangle of contradictions, stumbling toward connection. When she begins to realize she is worthy of love, not because she’s flawless, but simply because she exists, it feels like a truth we all need to hear.
 

2. Everything Everywhere All At Once

Chaos and absurdity. That's life, isn’t it? That’s why Everything Everywhere All At Once hit me so hard. Watching Evelyn unravel the multiverse, I kept thinking about how our lives splinter into countless paths from the smallest choices. Every yes, every no, every hesitation creates a branch we’ll never step back onto again. That awareness is both despairing and awe-inspiring.

Beneath the chaos, the film is anchored in love, especially family bonds. Life rarely gives us neat, cinematic moments of clarity. More often, we have to choose what matters to us in the middle of a hectic storm. For Evelyn, for Waymond, and for Joy, the answer is love: imperfect, enduring, chosen love. Who we choose to love, and why, is the question at the film’s core.

There’s also a generational weight here; the way trauma ripples down through families, shaping us in ways we don’t always see. The hard task is deciding what to carry forward and what to bury, so our children don’t inherit the same burdens. That question, what will I pass on, and what will I lay to rest?, lingers for me long after the credits rolled.

And yet, the film insists on humor. Hotdog fingers and googly eyes remind us that absurdity isn’t to be feared, but embraced. Sometimes the only way through despair is to laugh at it, and then, despite everything, to choose kindness.
 

3. The Name of the Wind

We are all the main characters of our own stories, or at least, we should be. That’s what The Name of the Wind teaches me. Kvothe’s narration is both survival and self-shaping: the weaving of a legacy out of what is true and what is wished for. His story hovers between the ordinary and the mythical, and it’s in that liminal space that the magic lives.

Kvothe embodies the cost of knowledge and power. What happens when fragile humans pursue them relentlessly? What do we sacrifice, and what do we become? And underneath his brilliance and legend is a quieter heartbeat: longing. For love he can’t quite reach, for mastery always just out of grasp, for a place in the world that remains elusive. That ache feels deeply familiar.

What makes Rothfuss’s story extraordinary is how it elevates the ordinary. He transforms the everyday struggles of being human into something epic; through music, through language, through raw emotion. That artistry reminds me that our flaws are not blemishes to erase but part of what makes us human. There is beauty in fragility, in failure, and in striving anyway.
 

Conclusion

Across these stories, the same question emerges: can we love ourselves and each other, even in our brokenness? They suggest that love does not bloom in spite of weakness, but because of it. Our flaws and failures aren’t the end of the story; they are the very place where connection begins.

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